WHAT DAMAGES HAS SEXUAL ABUSE CAUSED?
Most of the world mentally affected people are those who faced abuse in one form or the other. Some of these victims find it difficult to share their sad experiences with anyone because they see everyone as a threat to their survival. They may try in many ways to get over the trauma, but it has damaged their sense of happiness and trust. Often, these victims find it hard to mingle with other humans because they always feel insecure. Some of them were abused by the people they trust (close relatives) which causes deep cut in their heart for their trust has been betrayed.
Some children go through mantle torture because they are frequently abused and no one tries to pay close attention towards their cold feelings. Most parents get engaged with work all the time without checking up on their kids to know when they are going through pain. Because they don’t pay attention to these kids, they keep it inside of them and face hell for a long period of time, may be throughout their life time.
Spending time with victims of Abuse will make you realize that human varies not just from color differentiation but also from psychological differentiation. This psychological effect contributes largely to the way they live their lives. Some can’t fall in love not because they don’t want to, but the damage caused by this evil act has switched off their feelings, the only thing they feel is anger, pain and hatred. Some have become Addicts to either sex, drugs or Alcohol. They gradually lose their humanity and turn into beast if not controlled. They might be seen as aliens by people around them because of the funny attitudes they put up. They can be changed and put in the normal line of life if they are helped.
WHAT ARE THE POSSIBLE SOLUTIONS?
If you are a Victim reading this, you are advised to loosen up and let someone in, by first; going for counseling to any therapist you feel you can open up to. One on one conversations with therapist will help you realize what you’ve being missing ever since you became a prisoner to your situation.
You can try out door functions: Do lots of sport: see movies that are not related to you problems, comic can do a lot good: read books that can help you forget the past and channel your focus to the present.
Try praying to God to grant you the courage to withstand and defeat your fears. You can begin by forgiving yourself, it is only when you forgive and make peace with your inner self will you be able to accomplish all other steps to getting away from the damages caused by Abuse.